Our updated booklet, Weddings For The Interfaith Couple, walks you through all of the traditions for the big day, starting with two to think about in advance (choosing a wedding contract known as a ketubah and topics to consider when meeting with your wedding officiant).
Rabbi Mychal will be leading us in a discussion of interfaith relationships throughout Jewish history and the present challenges and opportunities they pose. This discussion will provide a foundation for the second part of the series in which we will explore the many realities of interfaith relationships, including challenges we have faced and our varied approaches to our own interfaith experiences.
A great way for Jewish professionals and volunteers who work with and provide programming for people in interfaith relationships to locate resources and trainings to build more welcome into their Jewish communities; connect with and learn from each other; and publicize and enhance their programs and services.
An addition to what the knowledgeable Rabbi didn’t say:
1) The Bat or Bar Mitzvah ceremony AS IT IS CELEBRATED TODAY is fairly new. The boy ceremony seventy years ago consisted of reciting the Torah blessings, Eating some “Leikach” cake and moving on with life. So basically, the ceremony can be designed within reason placing the boy / girl in the center with as many people Jew or gentile as participants.
2) What the Rabbi wanted to say (but was very careful) is: If you think that your friends and relatives expect participation, you should consider where to have your grand event. Don’t expect all houses of worship to accommodate your wishes even though they seem simple enough: Clergy have to consider their board of directors, congregation regulations, and more. So choose your house of worship carefully.