Our updated booklet, Weddings For The Interfaith Couple, walks you through all of the traditions for the big day, starting with two to think about in advance (choosing a wedding contract known as a ketubah and topics to consider when meeting with your wedding officiant).
Rabbi Mychal will be leading us in a discussion of interfaith relationships throughout Jewish history and the present challenges and opportunities they pose. This discussion will provide a foundation for the second part of the series in which we will explore the many realities of interfaith relationships, including challenges we have faced and our varied approaches to our own interfaith experiences.
A great way for Jewish professionals and volunteers who work with and provide programming for people in interfaith relationships to locate resources and trainings to build more welcome into their Jewish communities; connect with and learn from each other; and publicize and enhance their programs and services.
As far as the understandable discomfort about witnesses, in most cases I’ve been involved in, the mohel, sensitive to the privacy of the convert, has had the witnesses stand outside the door and brought the gauze out for them to “witness.”
Very well said, and I would heartily agree. My (Reconstructionist) conversion was official one year ago tomorrow with the visit to the Mikveh. Prior to that, on my birthday in late April, I underwent my Hatafat. I am a pretty private person and was quite anxious about the whole thing but the mohel (who is also a local medical doctor and member of my shul) was fantastic and I, literally, did not feel the lancet at all – and I’m pretty skittish and have a low pain tolerance. It was surprisingly unmemorable (aside from its incredible ritual importance). I also knew very little about what to expect going in but was, for want of a better word, “pleasantly” surprised. And now I have a special birthday memory!
I underwent hatafat dam brit last Thursday, when I went to mikveh (and became officially Jewish!)
Clap your hands. The sound your hands just made is how long the lancing takes, at least in my case. It felt like a mosquito bite and was so innocuous I felt silly having spent any time being afraid of it in advance.
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