Parents, Children and Interfaith Relationships: Listening so they will talk. Talking so they will listen. 4 week class being taught at Gratz College in Elkins Park, PA by IFF/Philadelphia Director Rabbi Robyn Frisch. The class begins Oct. 28 & is being offered both Tuesday afternoons & Tuesday evenings.
A great way for Jewish professionals and volunteers who work with and provide programming for people in interfaith relationships to locate resources and trainings to build more welcome into their Jewish communities; connect with and learn from each other; and publicize and enhance their programs and services.
I am a Jew by choice who converted in the Conservative movement in Argentina. By no means will Orthodox Jews ever consider me a Jew, probably not even all Conservative Jews, as I am certainly more inclined to Reconstructionist views and style. It bothers me, but I have to live with that. I definitely do not feel I belong with people who show disdain for patrilineal Jews or non-Orthodox Jews by choice while granting an unquestioned Jewishness to matrilineal Jews who do not identify themselves as Jews in the first place. Nor do I believe there is only one valid way of Jewish identity. it is harsh at times, but I do just what you do: look for inclusive communities that promote religious, cultural and spiritual practices I resonate with. Labels are just labels. I have not converted for them, although shrugging off people who consider themselves entitled to labeling and judging is still something I have a very hard time doing. You are raising a strong, caring daughter in a nurturing community. Do not let any unwelcome labelers take that huge pride away from you.
So much damage is done by the holier-than-thou of every stripe. We attended a wedding where the Rabbi decided to lecture congregants about marrying “out.” I had a long email correspondence with him about how inappropriate that was and how negative toward Judaism. Not surprisingly, he didn’t recant a word. Now, through my Jewish holiday products and online community, I hope to be one of the positive voices that says “c’mon in, the water’s warm.” So sorry you’ve had to endure this unnecessary . . . stuff.
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