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Back then, I certainly didn’t know anyone like Thomas Karatzas.
Karatzas is a 13-year-old boy from San Francisco who not only wanted to have a bar mitzvah, he had to persuade his Jewish mother that he wanted it for religious reasons, not because he needed a new iPod.
In a wonderful story in j., the Jewish news weekly of northern California, Stacy Palevsky writes that “Thomas grew up in an interfaith household.” But that’s not exactly right. His family was more no-faith than interfaith. His father was raised Greek Orthodox, and his mother Sephardic Jewish, but his mother rejected the Orthodox Judaism of her upbringing, and wanted nothing to do with Judaism. As a child, Karatzas was aware of both religions, but practiced neither.
But last January, he came home from school one day and told his parents he wanted a bar mitzvah:
But there was a problem:
When Thomas started going to services, it was his Greek Orthodox father, not his Jewish mother, who joined him on Shabbt.
Thomas eventually had his bar mitzvah on Aug. 30. Jewish relatives from France and Greek Orthodox relatives from New York flew in for the occasion. After the service, Thomas’ family and friends joined him at a celebration at home with food made by his French-Moroccan grandmother. Thomas continues to attend Shabbat services, and is excited about visiting Israel next summer.
It’s not often that a 13-year-old boy can simultaneously embrace religion, reconnect his parents to a religious community and bring his far-flung family together. The notion that the bar mitzvah marks a boy’s transition into adulthood can seem silly, but in Thomas’ case, it’s spot on.
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