This isn’t the first time that I’ve heard that non-Jews sign up for JDate, the internet’s oldest and most prominent Jewish dating service. In an article that ran in last week’s Jewish Journal of Greater Los Angeles, we learn that 2 percent of the people signing up for JDate aren’t Jewish.
At least, they aren’t yet. The 2 per cent in the article are those who checked off “willing to convert” as their religious affiliation in their profile.
If you’re reading this and you aren’t Jewish, probably you’re saying, “So? They like Jews. What’s so weird about that?”
While my Jewish readers, at least some of them, are saying, “They like Jews? What? That’s so weird!”
In fact, the reporter on the piece thought the same thing:
Itâ€™s true: While I was hoping for a more insidious answer â€” â€śJewish girls are better in bed; Jewish boys love non-Jewish girls!â€ť â€” the truth just happens to be … banal. Kate (datersâ€™ names have been changed to protect their privacy), a JDater who is not Jewish, said, â€śI guess I chose JDate because I knew a lot of people who had done it, and I think itâ€™s one of the older and bigger sites out there.â€ť No secret plot to infiltrate the Zionist clubhouse. Kate is just casting a wide net, trying to cover her bases.
Non-Jewish JDaters say things like, “I have wonderful relationships with Jewish people and have dated quite a few.” Maybe in the current US society, Jewishness is just another flavor, and this is a sign of our acceptance.
Either that, or maybe some people really like JDate. No one I know who has tried has great things to say, but perhaps my sample is skewed!
Why do you think non-Jews are trying JDate?
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