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The first Monday of the month from 9-10 am I set up a booth at the Weinger JCC lobby (300 Revere Drive, Northrbook). I channel Lucy from Peanuts and her â€ś5 cents Psychiatry booth.â€ť I have done this twice so far.Â I feel a little awkward but I canâ€™t think of a better way to make myself available to meet and talk. (And if someone just wants to go about their business, I certainly wonâ€™t get in their way.)
I know that some of you have questions and comments and welcome this way to connect. It is with anticipation and butterflies in my stomach that I wonder who might wander over and what we might discuss.
The first Monday in May someone came over and said, â€śAsk a Rabbi?â€ť
I said, â€śIâ€™m a rabbi, do you have any questions?â€ť
She sat down and we talked about her grandchildren and great-grandchildren. We spoke about her youngest great-grandchildren being raised with Judaism by a mom who is not Jewish and her admiration for her.
Because my friends know I am a rabbi, I often get to field theological issues as they come up. I just got a text from a friend that said that her daughter wanted to know who invented God! And I was supposed to text back and answer! I did. I wrote: Great question! My belief is that God has always been with no beginning and end. One of the mystical names for God is ein sofâ€”without end. But if she believes people invented God she is still a good Jew and if she doesnâ€™t believe in the supernatural, she may be drawn to secular humanism. When I saw this friend at the park we both laughed about texting this kind of thing. Sometimes when these kinds of questions come up, weâ€™ll mull them over, discuss with a parent or friend or handle it in a satisfying enough way without a â€śprofessional.â€ť
However, if you are around Northbrook the first Monday of the month and want to share something your kids said, or something you have been thinking about, or a question about a holiday or practice, or something you saw at a bar or bat mitzvah or you want advice about speaking with your in-laws about a religious topicâ€¦ I canâ€™t wait to hear about it. I donâ€™t have all the answers. My thoughts and approaches are only right if they feel right to you. I wonâ€™t tell you what to do. But, if it lends itself we will probably laugh. I can direct you to others in the community if you have a particular interest. I am a mom of two young kids, I think about how to raise mensches (Yiddish for good person), I live a harried life and I love the Shabbat rituals (although they rarely get accompanied by a sit-down family mealâ€”some of you can share how you accomplish this with me). I would love to learn and talk with you.
My youngest has been asking a lot about where he was before he got into my tummy, what he did in there and where God is now. I yearn to meet other people who can stop for a minute and share our humanity. We can look at each other and see where we overlap and understand each other and sense where our diversity and different backgrounds bring us to our own questions and concerns.
I hope to see you June 2 at 9am in Northbrook. If this location and time doesnâ€™t work for you, but you want to philosophize about something or just have a quick question, email me at firstname.lastname@example.org.
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