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I know this will embarrass you (and definitely make you cry) because thatâ€™s who you are, but in the spirit of this month of Thanksgiving, I wanted to say thank you.
Thank you forâ€¦
â€¦saying yes when I was 7 and came home from a visit to Hebrew School and declared that I wanted to go back and learn Hebrew. I often imagine what the conversation was like between you and Dad that evening, but you had the courage to let me follow my heart and we joined a synagogue so that I could. Thereâ€™s no way you or anyone could have known the impact that decision would have on all of our lives. Since you were never really moved by your familyâ€™s Catholicism or any sense of religion, I bet it was scary and uncomfortable at first, but you put me first and have always encouraged me to follow my passions.
â€¦participating in my Jewish life, learning the prayers and the music the best you could, showing up for everything, being so proud of me at my bat mitzvah and then confirmation and encouraging me to make every Jewish choice I wanted. Not only did I want to learn Hebrew, but I also wanted to belong to a community and I wanted you and Dad and my sister, Evyn, to belong too. We were lucky to find a community that embraced us all, found committees for you to add your voice to, made sure you felt comfortable and allowed us to find meaning and make life long friends.
â€¦influencing the person and the rabbi I am today. The odd rude person has asked me through the years if I ever was frustrated that you hadnâ€™t converted or even that you werenâ€™t Jewish. Once I got over my offense at the question, I always answered that so much of who I am is due to the person you are and I wouldnâ€™t change that even if I could. When I became a rabbi, I made sure that your name was on my ordination certificate, transliterated into Hebrew because both you and Dad created me and saw me through those many years of study, struggle and triumph in order for me to reach that particular life long dream. You are the calm voice in my head, reminding me of what I can achieve, telling me sometimes to relax, urging me to stand up for myself, reminding me how proud I make you.
â€¦enduring any ignorance that might have come your way: the people who didnâ€™t understand how you could have a daughter who is a rabbi or those who simply didnâ€™t include you, or even ignored you. You never let it bother you because you knew who you were and you showed me by your example how to be strong in a world where not everyone is accepting or kind.
Thank you for all the ways you choose love, by loving me, accepting me and always being my champion and my most fervent supporter (along with Dad, of course). I wouldnâ€™t be who I am; wouldnâ€™t be doing the work I love; couldnâ€™t live the happy life I doâ€”without your example of a strong woman, your humor, your quiet confidence, your effortless style and your soft heart. There will never be enough words to express how grateful I am for all that you are.
So thanks Mom, for being you.
P.S. Â Writing this made me cryâ€”thanks for that too!
By the InterfaithFamily/Philadelphia Team (Robyn Frisch, Wendy Armon and Robin Warsaw)
InterfaithFamily Shabbatâ€”which actually consists of not just one Shabbat, but this year, the entire month of Novemberâ€”is a time for being thankful. InterfaithFamily urges all of us to make November a month of â€ś30 Days of Abundant Appreciation.â€ť
In honor of InterfaithFamily Shabbat, here are 30 things we are thankful for:
1)Â Â Â Â Â The generous individuals and foundations that fund the important work that we do, including The Lasko Foundation, The Rubenstein Foundation and The Jewish Federation of Greater Philadelphia.
2)Â Â Â Â Â The individuals and couples who use our clergy referral service to find Jewish clergy to officiate at their lifecycle events and who come to us for support and counseling.
3)Â Â Â Â Â The parents (both Jewish parents and those of other faiths) of interfaith couples who honor and respect their childrenâ€™s choices and engage in meaningful and productive conversation.
4)Â Â Â Â Â The rabbis and cantors we refer for lifecycle events for interfaith couples and families.
5)Â Â Â Â Â The synagogues and organizations that list their events on our online Network so that interfaith couples and families can find welcoming places in the Jewish community.
6)Â Â Â Â Â Our fantastic InterfaithFamily Wedding Bloggers (who are also IFF/Philadelphia â€śLove and Religionâ€ť workshop alumni) Matt Rice (who married his wife Shannon in November 2013) and Sam Keefe and Anne Goodman (who were married in October 2014) for sharing their stories.
7)Â Â Â Â Â The members of our IFF/Philadelphia Facebook Group for posting about upcoming events, sharing their thoughts and supporting the interfaith community online.
8)Â Â Â Â Â The interfaith couples who have shared their stories with us and with each other in ourÂ â€śLove and Religionâ€ť workshops.
9)Â Â Â Â Â The alumni of our â€śRaising a Child With Judaism in Your Interfaith Familyâ€ť classes and â€śLove and Religionâ€ť workshops who have hosted Shabbat Dinners subsidized by InterfaithFamily.
10)Â Â The parents who have participated in our online â€śRaising a Child With Judaism in Your Interfaith Familyâ€ť classesâ€”those who grew up Jewish and those who did notâ€”who have seriously explored how to include Jewish practices and values in the lives of their families.
11)Â Â Tami Astorino, the fantastic facilitator of IFF/Philadelphiaâ€™s online â€śRaising A Child With Judaism In Your Interfaith Familyâ€ť classes and in-person â€śLove and Religionâ€ť workshops for interfaith couples, for her ability to stimulate important and sometimes difficult discussions and to honor and inspire the participants in her classes andÂ workshops.
12)Â Â All of the organizations that IFF/Philadelphia has had the opportunity to partner with, including The Collaborative, The Jewish Graduate Student Network, The Renaissance Group of the Jewish Federation of Greater Philadelphia, Einstein Healthcare Networkâ€™s Victor Center for Jewish Genetic Diseases and jkidphilly.
13)Â Â The synagogues and organizations who have invited us to provide Sensitivity Trainings for their professional staff and lay leaders.
14)Â Â The Religious School and Preschool Directors who have brought IFF/Philadelphia in to train their staffs so that they will be better equipped to meet the needs of their students from interfaith homes, as well as the studentsâ€™ parents.
15)Â Â The synagogues and organizations that have invited us to lead Adult Education programs on interfaith issues.
16)Â Â Rabbi Erin Hirsch and the GratzNEXT Professional Learning Program for Supplementary School Teachers for working with us to create the online teacher training program â€śTruly Welcoming Children of Interfaith Families.â€ť
19)Â Â Rabbi Isaac Saposnik, Executive Director of Camp JRF, a wonderfully inclusive place, for having us come to camp this past summer to provide a Sensitivity Training for all of the counselors.
21)Â Â The Gershman Y, for inviting Rabbi Robyn Frisch to facilitate The December Dilemma: Strategies for Interfaith Families During the Holidays on December 14, 2014.
22)Â Â Ross Berkowitz and Steven Share of The Collaborative for working with us to create meaningful programming for young adults in interfaith relationships and individuals in their 20s and 30s who grew up in interfaith homes.
23)Â Â Ed Case, Founder and CEO of InterfaithFamily, for his vision and leadership. For 13 years InterfaithFamily has provided unparalleled resources and support for interfaith couples and families exploring Jewish life.
24)Â Â Rabbi Mayer Selekman, who served on the Board of InterFaithways (predecessor to InterfaithFamily/Philadelphia) and is the Chair of IFF/Philadelphiaâ€™s Advisory Council. Rabbi Selekman is a true pioneer. He started officiating at interfaith weddings in the 1960s and has been advocating for the inclusion of interfaith couples and families in the Jewish community for years.
25)Â Â Leonard Wasserman, of blessed memory, Founder of InterFaithways, a visionary who saw intermarriage as an opportunity for the Jewish community, rather than a threat. And weâ€™re thankful to Leonardâ€™s wife of 64 years, Dorothy Wasserman, who worked with him to ensure the success of InterFaithways, and continues to support InterfaithFamily/Philadelphia and serve on our Advisory Council.
26)Â Â Bill Schwartz, InterfaithFamily National Board member and IFF/Philadelphia Advisory Council member, who leads our Philadelphia fundraising efforts. In 2006 Bill came up with the idea of having an InterFaithways Family Shabbat Weekend in Philadelphia and urged local synagogues to participate. Eight years later, over 100 synagogues and organizations in five cities are participating in InterfaithFamily Shabbat 2014.
27)Â Â Laurie Franz and Mindy Fortin, two amazing women from Philadelphia who serve on InterfaithFamilyâ€™s National Board and who support our work in the Philadelphia community.
28)Â Â The fantastic Advisory Council of IFF/Philadelphia, the members of which support and guide us in the work we do.
29)Â Â The talented and dedicated InterfaithFamily national staff in Boston as well as in communities throughout the country that we have the privilege of working with, as well as the InterfaithFamily National Board.
30)Â Â The 63 Philadelphia area synagogues and organizations that are participating in InterfaithFamily Shabbat 2014 and The Jewish Exponent for being a Media Affiliate. And all of the individuals who are going to attend InterfaithFamily Shabbat services, dinners and programs, helping to ensure that this yearâ€™s InterfaithFamily Shabbat will be the most successful one yet!
What are you thankful for this November?