Guide to Wedding Ceremonies for Interfaith Couples
Hebrew and Yiddish for "good luck," a phrase used to express congratulations for happy and significant occasions.
Hebrew for "canopy" or "covering," the structure (open on all four sides) under which a Jewish wedding ceremony takes place. In its simplest for, it consists of a cloth, sheet, or tallit stretched or supported over four poles.
The links in the outline below will lead you to information about the various ceremony components and what they mean.
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Modern-day Interfaith-Jewish Wedding Order
This can be adapted to your preferences, your officiant's or officiants' needs, or family preference.
- Signing of the Ketubah prior to the chuppah ceremony, usually half an hour or so before the scheduled wedding start time. Or during the ceremony.
- Chuppah Ceremony
- Acknowledgement of Different Faiths
- Blessing Over the Wine
- Blessing over Chuppah
- Poems, Prayers and/or Reading
- Reading of the Ketubah
- Unity Candle
- Exchange of Vows
- Ring Exchange
- Seven Blessings
- Breaking the Glass
- The Kiss! (THIS ONE IS UP TO YOU!)
- "MAZEL TOV!"
- Wedding party--Typically includes blessing over bread and blessing over wine offered by family and friends, as well as the wedding couple and their parents being lifted up in chairs, a Hora dance and possibly a Mezinke dance.
The Guide to Wedding Ceremonies for Interfaith Couples is also available in PDF and Word formats.