April 10, 2007
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As much as our own religious practice may depart from that of our parents, when a loved one dies, tradition calls. But how do you reconcile your own beliefs and practice with the rituals you know your loved one would want? If you've converted, how do you appropriately grieve for a dead parent? We explore these questions from a variety of perspectives in our new Web Magazine issue on Death and Mourning .
We have a new original reported feature on the growing complexity of mourning in interfaith families, from a Jewish widow having a rabbi and priest co-officiate at her non-Jewish husband's funeral to a convert adding her Christian mother's name to a yahrzeit list. Read more in Lisa Friedman's Death in the Interfaith Family .
There is no greater pain than losing your children. Pam Chernoff lost two of them. Read her poignant story in From Joy to Grief .
Johanna Karasik is the child of an interfaith family and was raised Jewish, but her grandmother was a devout Catholic. None of her aunts and uncles are religious but they still all gathered in a cathedral for a full Catholic service. It made her wonder, Who Is the Funeral for: The Dead or the Living?
While with her dying mother, Kathy Miller emulated her parents' Protestant, Pennsylvania Dutch stoicism. In private, she ranted and cried. Read more in the poignant Saying Kaddish at My Mother's Christian Memorial Service .
How do you mourn for someone who never loved you, wonders Milly Dawson in Making Peace with the Dead .
In teaching a course on intermarriage to Jewish grandparents in the Catskills, Terry McGrath doesn't hear debates about whether non-Jews should be buried in Jewish cemeteries. Rather, they're all wondering: Will my intermarried children be buried in The Family Plot ?
Judith van Praag, the child of a Jewish father and a non-Jewish mother, shares the details of her mother's beautiful burial in A White Shroud , an audio interview with Ronnie Friedland.
Can interfaith partners be buried in Jewish cemeteries? Can they be buried side-by-side, or must non-Jews be in a different section? Sue Fishkoff explores the complexity of Jewish burial in After Death Do Us Part? and Arlene Fine looks at synagogues' policies toward burial in Grave Challenges .
In Los Angeles last year, a Jewish cemetery launched a clever marketing campaign to the intermarried. Read more in Billboard Mystery Ends with Interfaith Twist .
For more resources on death and mourning in an interfaith family, visit our Death and Mourning Resource Page .
Arts and Entertainment
In Interfaith Celebrities , Nate Bloom talks about his "hero," Shia LaBeouf (Holes, I, Robot), whose mother is Jewish and whose father is a non-Jewish recovering drug addict, as well as two of the richest young stars: Amanda Bynes and Daniel Radcliffe.
Ever wonder what the heck Kabbalah is? After reading Kabbalah for Dummies, Rebecca Gopoian is still wondering. Read her review .
What's New on the Blogs
On the IFF Network Blog, we recently wrote about a Boston-based workshop on interfaith death and mourning and Newsweek's list ofAmerica's top 50 rabbis .
On the Weddings Blog, Julie writes about the anxiety of being a non-Jew at the Passover seder and Bryan wonders why finding a rabbi for their wedding was so difficult .
Our next issue, on Communication in Interfaith Relationships, will be published
Micah Sachs, Online Managing Editor
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