Rabbi Steven Carr Reuben wrote a perceptive essay for us years ago arguing that the High Holidays are the worst time of the year for unaffiliated Jews or interfaith families to be introduced to the Jewish world. He said Jews and non-Jews alike find the images of God as the "Divine Judge" and the prayers which ask "Who shall live and who shall die" difficult to relate to and disconnected from their own search for meaning, purpose and personal growth.
Which is too bad, considering some of the most enjoyable, accessible ways to "do Jewish stuff" follow only a few days after Yom Kippur. Currently, I'm enjoying the relaxed, autumnal feel of Sukkot, which is celebrated by having meals in an outdoor booth under the stars. Simchat Torah comes as soon as Sukkot ends, marking the end of one yearlong cycle of reading the Torah and celebrating the start of a new cycle.
If you're trying to figure out how to "do Jewish stuff" in your interfaith family's life, I invite you to sign up for Love and Religion - Online, a four-session online workshop facilitated by Dr. Marion Usher of the Washington DC Jewish Community Center. To learn more and to register, click here.
And if you'd like to support InterfaithFamily.com's work to make everyday a great time of the year for interfaith families to be introduced to Judaism, please vote for me as a Jewish Community Hero. If you've done it before, please do it again! Voting closes next Friday, Oct. 8.